Being Heart Broken

Breakups hurt, but losing someone who doesn't respect and appreciate you is actually a gain, not a loss.Be strong enough to let go and patient enough to wait for what you deserve.A big part of heartbreak is about the other person (who broke your heart). But sometimes you play a part in your own heartbreak. For instance, by accepting less than you deserve. The other big part of heartbreak is about you. Your unhealed wounds from the past. Your vulnerabilities. Your costly mistakes. Your dysfunctional beliefs about yourself that you’ve picked up along the way. Your lack of self-love and confidence. Heartbreak is a very personal thing. Your heart has a history. When it’s broken, you have the chance to understand that history. So that ultimately, you can better protect your heart. And learn how to let go. Because in every single moment for the rest of your life  something could happen that shatters your heart to pieces. Be brave. Accept that. It means you’re human and you dare to live and love which means risking getting hurt. Each time you take heartbreak as an opportunity to heal and get to know your past you create a new and brighter identity for yourself. You create a better future. You have more options to choose from.